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Bullying

Bullying is persistent unwelcome behaviour. The bully keeps doing ore saying things to have the power over another. So somebody can have the power over another person. The person who’s getting bullied is the victim off: hitting, name-calling and other horrible things.

There are three main types of bullying:
- Physical: Hitting, kicking and taking belongings.
- Verbal: Name-calling, insulting, and racist remarks.
- Indirect/Emotional: Spreading nasty stories and excluding from groups.
All forms of bullying can be damaging.

Someone who’s been bullied doesn’t fit in the group and is mostly different in some way. In the way they talk, their size, the colour of their skin or just because they look like they can’t stand up for themselves. But that doesn’t always have to be, so it’s very difficult to spot someone who is being bullied. But you recognize thinks in there behaviour. They are mostly alone, very quiet and shy.

If you see someone else being bullied you should always try to stop it. If you do nothing, you’re saying that bullying is okay with you. The best way to help is probably to tell an adult. It’s always best to treat others the way you would like to be treated. You should show the bully that you think what they’re doing is stupid and mean. Help the person being bullied to tell an adult they can trust. You should always support the victim! Tell the victim that they don’t blame there selves or believe it’s there own fault. The victim is not the problem, the bully is and he/she is the only one who can do something about it. Make the peer group aware and ask them to help the victim. Now the bully has nobody on his side and maybe they will stop bulling. If you tried that and it won’t help you help the victim to act more decisively to increase their own confidence.
Hopefully the victim is trying to ignoring the bully, tell the victim them to stop and walking away whenever the bully starts. So if that doesn’t help you can help the victim to identify everything that’s happening and show it to the teacher or someone that the victim trust. They can talk with the one who has the leadership in the group. They must ask why the bully bullied someone. Let him see that bullying really can spoil your whole life. If there don’t care about then let them see what the word suicide means and ask if the bully wants that on his/her conscience.

Why people bully
People bully because, the maybe been bullied along time ago. They are afraid that it happened afraid to them.
Sometimes they bully because, they are afraid that they are getting bullied. And when are the bulling someone it won’t happen to them. Mostly are they afraid to stand outside the group.
But there is another reason maybe they don’t like the person. Maybe is the bully jealous ore he/she just hate the person.
Bullies are mostly always popular then the rest off the group. Most bullies have a low self-confidence. They have poor concentration.
There are all sorts off victims. Mostly they are getting bullied because they have poor social skills. Ore they are desperate to ¡§fit in¡¨. The most victims blame themselves and believe it’s their own fault. Sometimes they are getting bullied because they look like they can’t stand up for themselves

First listen the story of the victim, and then you have to go the bully and let him tell the story to. Then you have the decide if the bullying is right or not. Try to find out how you can make the bully stop. Then ask the rest off to group why they are bulling.

I don’t think you can prevent being bullied. And especially not when it’s somebody else because. You have enough to look after yourself. But when you think someone starts to get bullied you can go against the group. Ask them why they are doing such a pathetic thing. And learn the one who’s getting bullied to stand up for themselves so nobody gets the change to ruing there life’s.